I recently watched a movie, Martian Child, that was so full of little profound questions that spoke to me. This question, "Why can't you be who we want you to be?" in particular. Most of my life, I have felt like everyone around me was trying to fit me into a mold that THEY had made for me. I attempted to fit into their molds, but I was too clumsy and didn't fit quite right. It has been this way since I can remember, but especially since the day I gave my life to Jesus. Since then, it has gotten increasingly stronger and more forceful.
My family wasn't sure what to do with me once Jesus was my reason for existing. They hated that I spent so much time at church. They felt I was rebelling against the values they had taught me. I was asked, "Why can't you be normal like all the other kids?" I felt so rejected and like an outcast in the one place I was supposed to belong.
My church family also wasn't sure what to do with me, I wasn't quite "christian" enough for them because I came from a "worldly" family. Parents of my christian friends cringed when they saw their teens hanging out with me. I was a "bad" girl because my parents offered me more freedom then their parents did. I admit to partying at times because I longed to please my family, and that made me "bad".
As I got older, it became about wearing the right clothes to church. Or about having enough faith in this area or that area. Listening to the right music. Having the right hair. Wearing the right shoes. Rolling my pants the right way, or not rolling them. Whatever the image is that someone else wanted to project on me.
At times even it has been about what ministers labeled my call. Not asking me what I felt God was speaking to my heart, but telling me where I fit and putting me in positions that left me uncomfortable and unfulfilled. All the while, I tried to fit neatly in everyone's little boxes for me.
Why can't you be what we want you to be? BECAUSE that isn't who God made me to be... God made me to be ME...... What a revelation! I don't have to fit into YOUR box, I just have to fit into the person God made me to be. Being who He made me to be pleases Him far more then me bending into the human pretzel to be who YOU want ME to be. And He loves me just the way I am, just the way He made me.
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Well said! This seems to be the 'song of the hour' that Jesus is singing through many of us. It's like we are standing up, and going through a 'metamorphasis', the outer crust is falling off, and we are emerging...ourselves!! All the things that others think we should 'do' to be who they think we should be....it's not about what we do...it's about what He already did...what freedom!
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